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冯唐曾说，“成功没有捷径，但必要一些好习惯。”简直，如果将人的各种命运分解，试图从中找出一些规律的话，那么良好的习惯，敢于捉住机遇的勇气是比天赋更为紧张的东西。
曾被美国《期间》周刊称为“25位最有影响力的美国人之一”的柯维先生，也就是《高效能人士的7个习惯》的作者，曾专门针对孩子写过另外两本闻名的书：《The 7 Habits of Happy Kids》和《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens》。美国学校把它归纳为孩子成长的“7棵习惯树”。
新学期来了，陪孩子一起徐徐养成这些好习惯吧！
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Be proactive - You're in charge
积极自动，我的人生我负责
I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.
我对自己负责，办事积极自动。我能管理好自己的行为、态度和情绪。我做了错事不推卸责任。君子慎独，哪怕没有人监视，我也会积极自觉地去做正确的事变。
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Begin with the end in mind - Have a plan
有目的，有计划
I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.
办事前我会制定计划、确定目的。我会做许多故意义、有积极影响力的事。我是班级里的紧张一员，为学校事务贡献自己的力量。我希望成为一个好公民。
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Put first things first - Work first, then play
办事分主次，先工作，后娱乐
I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.
我会把时间花在最紧张的事变上。勇于向不该做的事儿说不。我制定优先级，做日程表，然后按计划推进。我自律同时办事有条理。
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Think win-win - Everyone can win
有双赢意识
I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.
我勇于争取自己想要的，但是我同时也会考虑别人的需求。我在别人的“情感银行”账号里放下我的存款（维系情感）。有抵牾的时候，我寻求能均衡彼此需求的办理方案。
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Seek first to understand, then to be understood
先去理解别人，再求被人理解
I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.
我仔细凝听别人的想法和感受，积极从他人角度去理解问题，也不会打断别人的话。我可以自信表达自己的观点，与人交换时会直视对方的眼睛。
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Synergize - Together is better
协同－互助会更好
I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups.I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.
我明白别人身上闪光点的价值并向他们学习。即便是和我很不一样的人，我也能愉快地和他们相处。我很善于团队互助，也很善于听取他人的建议，由于我知道与单打独斗相比，团队互助能带来更好的办理方案。我保持谦虚。
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Sharpen the saw - Balance feels best
磨刀不误砍柴工，均衡为上
I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.
我关注饮食康健，锻炼身体，包管睡眠。我常常陪伴家人和朋友。对我来说，学习的方法和场所都许多－绝不止于学校。我用故意义的方式去帮助别人。
“给孩子金山银山，不如给孩子一个好习惯。”在孩子的幼年时期，让孩子养成一些好习惯，对他的成长甚至一生都会产生紧张影响。
帮助孩子造就好习惯的最佳方法就是给他们做榜样哦~在生活中，爸爸妈妈要以身作则，相信宝贝们也能积极效仿的！同样，这些习惯对我们家长也很适用，引导帮助孩子的同时，让我们也一起来提升吧！ |
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